Wednesday, June 23, 2010

what is it like dating a beautiful person? i like a boy who is very good-looking and he has expressed likings for me too but i don't know if we should get together :/

I wouldn't know because I'm not dating one? Haha.

I get it; why you are so concerned and all, but if it's worth it then why not right? No one else can tell you what to do because you know best.

Sure, you will have to expect ridicules. Strangers on the road are gonna point at you with him and you're gonna know that they are talking about you. They are that blatant. You are going to hear lots of "Beauty and the Beast" comparisons and people will laugh at you outrightly. Even friends will blurt out a mean remark or two when they are careless. You don't even have to be ugly for all these to happen.

These things will damage you so much, you will want to give up. Your insecurities will pile up so high that every now and then, your looks will become the highlight of a fight between the two of you. Or worse still, you begin to doubt yourself and feel inferior. I'm not trying to scare you but if you are concerned over this right from the start, you will have to know what to expect and prepare yourself for it.

His support will matter alot in order for you to overcome this insecurity, so tell him how you feel as honestly as you can. Don't play up or tone down what is going on in your mind and heart. Always tell yourself that there is more than appearance when it comes to a successful relationship, and no one is a weaker link. E.g. He might be better looking but you have a high tolerance for his nonsense. Ultimately, a relationship boils down to the two of you. If it fails, no one else will be there to pick up the pieces or nurse a broken heart for you. So try all you can to make it work. I'm rooting for you, my dear(:

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