Hmm, yes they do. I don't think anyone can go unaffected right! Haha. Anyway, I am lucky in a sense that I get over criticisms very quickly, especially if they are from people who don't know me. Things like "You are a bitch" have absolutely no hold over my emotions because they are not justified and honestly, very hurting meh? Haha.
The worst kind of ridicules are when...
1. they are from people I know. It's not so much the remark that would hurt me but the idea of it. It sickens me that people I love would want to hurt me by insulting me. And when they do it anonymously (there's always a way of finding out), it's like a fuck-you-and-here's-a-knife-down-your-back in my face.
2. the things said about you are true. Because you know they are real and substantial and somehow, you have to do something to change or it'll just keep coming back to haunt you.
(I realize my replies to you are all very long! Haha, I am so sorry and do update me on your r/s status! <3)
Friday, June 25, 2010
thank you for your advice! i will remember it if we ever get together. here's a question for you...do criticisms hurt you?
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